there are times when cases simply can’t, don’t or won’t settle. Either the issues are too complex and disputed, or one side or the other simply isn’t willing to budge. Sometimes unfortunately, one side chooses not to engage or seek a settlement just for “sport”.
Sometimes, solicitors or participants hold back information from opposing counsel (and the mediator), thinking they hold back their ace until the last minute. Often, this backfires and involves more time and money being spent. Withholding important case information and evidence is seldom advisable.
Many people entering into their first mediation often wonder what they need to bring. The role of the mediator is to help the participants find a solution they can both live with. To do this, the mediator needs to know everything relevant.
Emotion is the downfall of many disputes. One side feels they deserve it all and the other side feels they should give nothing. This is a destructive emotional response that impedes a satisfactory settlement. When evaluating your case, it is important to try and put emotion aside and look at things clearly. A judge hearing your case will have to look at the case objectively and neutrally under the law.
